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Quiet Blog Question Duck Two: Duck Harder

PeterDuckie 2 Warning: Contains X-rays of spines and hips and if you know what you’re looking for, even some intestines filled with what intestines are filled with. Yup, that stuff.

In other news, according to Jon’s orthopaedic surgeon it’s the end of an era for Jon’s hips. Jon was recently examined for both the state of his hips (the first surgery for which started this blog so many years ago) and his more recently-occurring scoliosis. The scoliosis is now the major concern, as he still has a couple years of potential growing to do, and we need to keep watch to see if any surgery might yet be required. His spine has curved ever so slightly more this year, 15 months since his last x-ray, but not enough to set the surgeon into action.

current state of Jon's scoliosis back curvature

Mind you, we’ve already been in to contact with our wheelchair vendor and Jon’s board-assigned occupational therapist to get them alter some aspects of his wheelchair. Due to bad timing, this latest chair arrived during the summer of 2010, and his previous occupational therapist and vendor rep changed when he arrived at his high school, so there was no continuity to ensure that what they had originally recommended nine months before was working—and as it turns out, some of the new touches weren’t appropriate. (We understand this aspect; every individual with CP has unique issues, and what works for one will not necessarily work for others. Therefore, more attention is needed.) And now, with a second school move, we’ll be changing therapists again. So we’ll have to stay proactive on this one.

But in end-of-an-era news, Jon’s hips got their final major x-ray. The hip’s growth plates are now fused, so there’s little likelihood for the metal hardware buried inside his femurs to shift. Both the pelvis and the femurs look good, have finished growing nicely since his most recent surgeries of five years ago. And with that, this particular worry in life is over. Any further growth will be in his legs or his torso (adding more strain to his back). So while the hips fade away in concern, we must be vigilant about his back (as much as we can, in any case)

Let’s take a tour down Hip-storical Avenue, shall we?

(pun copyright ©2012 Peter Cook)

2001

Before

As we’ve said before, femurs don’t grow bent, they and the hip socket grow and develop that way by the toddler owner running around on them. Jon didn’t stand or run enough, so they never could set properly.
Hip x-ray before any operations

Surgeon Plans

This is the surgeon’s quick sketch of his plans (made for inquiring parents. Notice the number of IKEA standard parts is reasonably low.)
The surgeon's sketch of his plan

Post-Op

Afterwords. It looks a little drastic at this point, but notice the cool rebuild.
Hip x-ray after operation at 5 years old

…And 6 weeks later

It’s all looking way better. At this point, all concerned had hoped that Jon could have enough physiotherapy to achieve proper development in time. (Note: that was about the time Mike Harris took over Ontario, introduced massive cutbacks in education and instituted that physiotherapists for special needs kids could only advise—no hands-on therapy. Jon’s school had 5 or 6 therapists, and after his first year they could no longer directly participate in the their physical therapy.)

Hip x-ray two months later

The intervening five years were a bit of a blur hip-checkup-wise, but at some point we were offered the chance to go to Bloorview MacMillan to get Jon’s X-ray instead Sick Kid’s orthopaedic clinic (imagine 30-40 folks in one room, milling staff, long lineups for X-rays, etc.). We were told that each X-ray taken was forwarded to Sick Kid’s for examination by our surgeon, but somewhere along the way, be it before or after we were assigned a different surgeon, the X-rays just stopped getting to where they had to get to, and Jon’s growth was shifting the blade plate…

2006

The Leg Break

It won’t go into the detail of the break-on-vacation, the misdiagnosis by Vancouver Children’s Hospital, or the eventual-but-delayed surgery at Sick Kids in Toronto…
Hip x-ray after break returning from British Columbia at age 10

…but to say that Jon’s right leg was repaired, and it became clear via the X-rays that it was time do his other one too. They did that about six months later.

2007

Hip x-ray after fixing break, and redefining Jon's other hip

Late 2011

Jon's hips at 15 years old
And here we are. In shots like this, remember that you are viewing it three-dimensionally so that the upper part of the “L-Bracket”, called the blade plate, is entirely embedded in the bone. Nothing is jutting out. The side portion of the bracket is on the outside, affixed by screws.

So that’s it for Jon’s physionogmy for a while. Let’s hope! 🙂

So What’s With The Quiet Blog?

PeterLaura Glad you asked. This fall has been spent trying to get a few ducks in a row.

Duckie 1

As of late last year, we decided to move Jon to a different school. Although there are some decent staff at his current school, their education plans for Jon never really crystallized, and there was always some aspect of equipment, school layout, and other sundry issues that were always holding things back. None of Jon’s classmates are at his level, and have completely different challenges than him. In the end, the school just clearly isn’t appropriate for his needs, educationally, physically and peer-wise.

Although provincial education regulations specifically state that a disabled child’s educational needs must be provided for, the Toronto District School Board (TDSB) has created some policies that make it difficult to alter a student’s placement or even find out about other specific options.

We’ve posted previously about the assignment of Jon’s high school at the close of his elementary school year. It wasn’t an ideal placement: offered late, with much board reticence to allow us to see other placement options for Jon.

This late offer turned out to be because of a sudden shortage of placement positions in our quadrant of the city, caused mainly by the board selling an entire high school. West Toronto was the best adapted high school to special-needs kids (like Jon) in the TDSB’s entire South-West sector. In fact, it was the only dedicated special-needs high school with complete wheelchair accessibility in the old “City of Toronto” proper; the other equivalent schools are in Scarborough, Etobicoke and North York, and at that they are towards the outskirts of our metropolis.

So, with some very helpful strategic advice from parents in a similar situation, who fought a very similar battle last year (and who shall remain nameless in this blog), we began. We’d been warned that this process would likely be taxing, so to avoid having it stealing too many resources from the rest of our lives (other personal events of 2011 had already done that, thank you very much) we assigned a single operative for the campaign. Peter would act as the primary, allowing Laura to focus on work, rather than the arbitrary “logic” of school board bureaucracy. Also in this way, Laura would not enter the picture until it was coming to a close or she was needed join the battle.

Peter started The Quest for a Placement More Appropriate To Jon’s Needs (tentative movie title, but the producer wants to call it We Bought a Tinker, Tailer, Soldier, and The Muppets!) on the first day of school, September 6. By mid-October, Peter ended up facing a panel of approximately 14 administrators and staff of Jon’s current high school, as per Board policy. One was openly sympathetic to Jon’s needs for a new placement, another …opposed? …played Devil’s Advocate? —we’re still unsure. In the end, Peter put forward a strong case and heard one member of the panel openly say that he was right (nice to hear!)

To be clear, we never felt that anyone at the board ever actively worked against us. As the gears ground along, two or three were quite supportive, giving Peter secret advice or simply working hard to find a good placement. But the procedures set by the TDSB allowed this to drag out longer than necessary. Part of this is the relative scarcity of “congregational” schools: schools dedicated to a specific select group—in Jon’s case, the physically disabled with their mobility and assistive equipment. Of course, because of this equipment, these specialized schools have lower student densities than regular schools (bizarrely, provincial school funding is based on square footage/student density). The school board, hard up for funding, has taken to selling infrastructure on more expensive land, and placing specialized (low density) schools in areas with a lesser land value. Add to this is the fact that both the TDSB and the Province of Ontario are officially in favour of reducing congregational school in favour of “integrated” (i.e. regular) schools. This is the world we live in.

But we digress. We seem to have reached a happy conclusion: sometime early in the New Year, Jon will be attending York Humber High School at Jane and Eglinton. Its accessibility is scads better than Danforth; staff (judging from several we encountered during a visit) are highly energized and motivated, and clearly care about the students. Prior to our first visit staff had already started discussing specific teaching options for Jon’s strengths and weaknesses. Because the school serves a range of kids from developmentally delayed (DD), through Mild Intellectal Disability (MID) to Learning Disabled (LD), they have a range of learning options for Jon, and more social opportunities.

York Humber High School

The one disadvantage about the school is that it’s 15 km away from home, on the west side of the city. This means Jon will have a lengthy commute, one that crosses the centre of Toronto. It took us 45 minutes to get home from our visit; how long will his trip in rush-hour traffic take every day? (Then again, this year his bus is taking 60–75 minutes to get from his school 3 km away—so who’s to say which will be faster?)

The school’s forwarded an offer to us, and we’ve signed it.

We say that Jon will be attending the new school “sometime” in the New Year because the move depends on when his assistive devices (computer, keyboard, scanner, CCTV, stander and tricycle) are moved by the TDSB (as they are board-issued, Peter is not allowed to move them himself). But as of just before the holidays, none of the involved parties (old school, new school, board) seemed to know who’s responsible for transferring the equipment, or arranging his new bus route. This may yet take a few more phone calls and emails on our part. (Or maybe it will go just fine. Who can say?)

In the end, the most ridiculous thing is that everyone in the system has remarked to us how exceptionally fast Jon’s case has been resolved. If that’s fast we’d hate to see protracted!

Halloween Preparations 2011

Peter In the last year’s grand tradition of giving folks an ongoing sneak peak, we’ll now start posting photos of Jon’s costume as it comes together.

Rules of this contest are simple: no hitting below the belt, no gouging, no spitting, and the use of cutting implements over 24″ in length is frowned upon. If you already know what he’s going to be—due to him or one of us telling you—don’t spoil!

Again, we’re starting with a hat. The sharp-eyed among you will notice that it is Jon’s hat from the Russell costume two years ago, about to be repurposed.

Another pic tomorrow will really get things going.

Letter to Tamiko

Dear Tamiko

Thank you for letting me show you my mash-ups. I talked to you a lot. It was nice talking to you. Thank you for taking us to Sher-E Punjab.That dinner was good and I love Indian food. I didn’t see Chess with you, but, I like seeing the songs on the Apple TV. I hope you come visit again soon.

Love Jon

The Science Centre

Jon 9/6/2011

I had a good time at The Science Centre. First, I saw a film Under The Sea. Then, Daddy and I ate lunch. I had a hot dog and some french fries. After lunch we went to the Human Body show to look at the skeleton bones. I then went to the shadow room. In the shadow room there was a flash of light, and then I saw my shadow. This made me very happy.

Jon meets aurora generator
Not a Van de Graaff generator.

After the shadow room I saw a video with ants in it. It was fun. Then we rode on the elevator to get back to the entrance. I love the Science Centre and I had a great time there.

Jon

(Jon didn’t mention this in his post, but the Science Centre had an “Amazing Aging Machine” that would age kids on the computer. It was a little tough for Jon, since he couldn’t hold his head in the right position easily, and his eyes were closed, but it came up with quite a mug shot! —L)
Young Jon meet older Jon?
Young Jon, meet “older” Jon?

My 10 Days At Camp

Jon 8/10/2011

I had a great 10 days at camp. Camp started on the 31st of July, which was a Sunday. On day 2 I went on an overnight camping trip where we canoed through the locks. I swam in a lock and touched the moss on the side. I slept in a sleeping bag in a tent.

In the lock: in the canoes
In the lock: out of the canoes
Hanging out in the lock

When I got back to Camp Merrywood I joined the Weather Network Club where I made windmills. Later we did a Lady Gaga show where we dressed up as monsters. My cabin, Moose cabin, did one of her songs, “Poker Face.”

Weather guy
Jon the weatherman and his weather chart. Alas, no pictures of Gaga night.

At Life Skills I did some sand art. I glued coloured sand onto paper. Later that week I had Spa Day. I got a hand massage and had nail polish put on! One day I went swimming in the swimming pool.

In the pool

On day 9 we had a talent show. Some people danced and other people sang. I sang the “Repeat After Me” song from Sid The Science Kid.

Getting ready to play quidditch
Jon informs us that this picture is from their Quidditch game. Yes, apparently they had broomsticks.

On the last evening we had a banquet dinner. I ate roast beef and potatoes. Afterward we watched a slideshow and then danced. The next morning Daddy came to pick me up. My 10 days at Camp were fun!

Jon

Banquet night
Jon looking suave with one of the counsellors

Smartasses and Doorstops

Laura I’ve recently been introduced1 to a scathingly funny blog called “Smartass Cripple”, by Chicago writer Mike Ervin, a quadriplegic who is, yes, very much a smartass. He is not one to get sanctimonious when writing about disability issues: He’s just as likely to take wickedly nasty potshots at himself and his “fellow cripples” as he is at Oprah, politicians, or the usual satirical targets. Needless to say, his blog is defiantly politically incorrect, occasionally juvenile, as well as filled with f-bombs and other strong language. Reader be warned.

But for all of his potty-mouth, Ervin brings up interesting and humorous takes on disability, unhampered by the need to feature uplifting stories about triumphant handicapped people who’ve succeeded despite adversity (cue the violins). Ervin’s columns often deal with the more offbeat details of disability, like how the length of one’s “independence stick” (a pointer that all the wheelchair kids at his old school used, enabling them to press elevator buttons) denoted how handicapped you are, and thus, how cool you were. This is the kind of snarky attitude that sadly is in short supply among publications/columnists on disability issues.

Ervin’s latest post is a good example (all quotes below are from this post.)

Whenever I go shopping and I see cheap shit made in foreign countries for slave wages, it really pisses me off. Those people are taking our goddam jobs from us! In America, cripples are the ones who are supposed to be making cheap shit for slave wages! It’s a grand tradition!

Ton of cripples still work in sheltered workshops. Whenever I see a wood doorstop I think about all the cripples who work in sheltered workshops because making wood doorstops seems like the kind of job a sheltered workshop would have its cripples do. A cripple cuts a block of wood down the middle kitty-corner and presto, two wood wedges. And then the cripple gets paid something like two cents per wedge.

This made me think (and not kindly) about the high school that Jon might’ve gone to starting this year. The Developmental Delay program at Monarch Park C.I. seemed to consist largely of kids sanding and painting woodwork in a workshop. This might be perfect for some kids, but it is absolutely unsuitable for Jon, being at the same time too challenging (because of his visual difficulties) and not challenging enough (mentally). The fact that they didn’t seem to care much that it took months—months!—for some kids to acclimatize to the place also rather appalled us.

Put me on a doorstop assembly line and I’d be a fuck up too. I’m sure Stephen Hawking couldn’t make a damn doorstop if his life depended on it. Why not take a little time to find out what a person does well and get them a job doing that?

Admittedly, the Monarch Park DD kids were doing other useful and varied jobs around the school as well (delivering periodicals to other classes, selling baked goods), but the overwhelming impression we got from our visit was negative—an indelible vision of all these wheelchair kids crammed into a woodworking sweatshop.

This underscores something I’ve worried about for the last few years, and as Jon gets older the feeling of dread gnaws a bigger and bigger hole at the pit of my stomach: Will Jon ever be able to work? How will he find work? Will his combination of disabilities preclude him from finding anything meaningful to do—most “successful” people with disabilities seem to have disabilities in either motor skills or mental ability, but not both. And throwing visual disabilities into the mix? Oy. Will it be “real” work or a “two cents per wedge” type situation? It’s less that I care about whether or not he can ever financially support himself—I’m resigned to the likelihood that he will not. Rather, will he be able to work at something that he’s reasonably happy with? Something that gives him a reason to get out of the house for a few hours, away from his tiresome parents?

Ervin goes on to tell of a guy with Tourette’s Syndrome suing an ex-employer under the Americans with Disabilities Act because he was fired from his job as a greeter. He lost, because obviously store greeters—disability or no—can’t make rude comments about customers. But Ervin correctly points out:

…[W]ho the hell is the Rhodes Scholar genius who decided to make him a greeter? Why didn’t someone sue that person for being an idiot?

Coincidentally, Jon’s teacher recently suggested that a possible job that Jon might someday be able to do is Wal-Mart greeter. Our reaction was a rather stunned, “huh,”—it was literally something that had never crossed our minds before. And then, “damn—maybe some day we’ll actually have to like Wal-Mart!”


1 Via the always edifying tweets of Roger Ebert, who is truly an indispensable Twitter resource.