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Finally, a post about our summer trip!

Laura Peter Since last year was our silver anniversary, we took this year’s camp session as an opportunity to re-create our honeymoon trip and re-visit some of the cities—well, one of them anyway—that we went to 25 years ago.

There aren’t many photos in this post; check out our Storehouse layout Return visit to England.

View of the English countryside from 5 or 6 thousand feet up

London

Much of our trip was spent wandering around London, visiting museums, eating, checking out espresso joints, and seeing some theatre.

Food

In the 25 intervening years British food has definitely improved! Even though admittedly we aimed a bit higher than our previous trip’s student-budget level, we were impressed with the culinary talent in London. Our meals were moderately-priced, and we were largely delighted by all. Standouts included the superb Punjabi restaurant Needoo Grill, with their truly amazing chicken palak, and Honey & Co., a tiny, blink-and-you’ll-miss-it Middle-Eastern resto that turned out to be a highly-rated foodie spot. Covent Garden’s Kopapa is an excellent fusion restaurant, with very imaginative dishes that put us in mind of Quebec City’s Pain Béni. We even went to Jamie’s Italian, assuming that Jamie Oliver’s ubiquity would mean that this chain restaurant would be mediocre. But we were happy to discover that though the menu was fairly basic—nothing particularly challenging in flavour or originality (it’s supposed to be Italian home-cooking)—the ingredients were nicely-cooked, and more importantly, everything was freshly-made (including the excellent pasta). Even at the English Trust’s Fountain Abbey restaurant in Yorkshire, they served locally-sourced meats and veggies, and the food was delicious!

Coffee

Now that Laura has decent knowledge of espresso and some years of experience with her home setup—and having already checked out some of the best coffee shops in Toronto and New York City—we tried out some of the higher-rated shops in central London. In order we tried Kaffeine (66 Great Titchfield St.), Caravan (Exmouth Market), Dose (near Smithfield Market) and Monmouth (Borough Market); and that turned out to be our order of preference as well. Kaffeine quickly became our absolute favourite (sorry, Toronto cafes), and over our trip we managed to re-visit it three more times and get quite chummy with Ben, one of the baristas.

Kaffeine, we miss you!!

Walking (and Tubing) around

We spent a lot of time exploring the streets of London on foot, occasionally getting lost and/or found via GPS (fun fact: there are actually TWO (count ’em, 2) Granary Squares a mile apart—welcome to London)—so much so that we didn’t actually spend much time inside many museums. We did manage to poke our heads into the British Library to see an exhibit of the history of comics in the UK,
mannequins wearing V masks
Photos weren’t allowed, but Peter didn’t realize that until halfway through. So you didn’t see this cool collection of mannequins wearing V masks.

…as well as the Treasures of the British Library John Ritblat Gallery of rare books, first editions and autograph letters and manuscripts (comparing the beautiful copperplate handwriting of Captain Cook and Jane Austen versus the untidy scrawls of Charleses Darwin and Dickens was fun.) One morning we did the London Eye, paying the £8 extra for the express line, which turned out to be a smart move: we were on the wheel within minutes, while the massive non-express queue must have been the better part of two hours long.

Moment (Victoria & Albert Museum): Peter having fun sketching a wonderfully jolly statue. Laura, studying it closer, comes back to tell him it’s of a notorious quack who did well in his quackery and could commission a memorable piece of sculpture.

Moment (Victoria & Albert Museum): The day was sunny, warm and slightly humid, and the V&A wasn’t air-conditioned and getting a bit stiffly, so we, like many, took a break for refreshments in the central courtyard, as folks leisurely sat around and children played in the wading pool.

Right near our hotel (literally steps from St. Pancras/Kings Cross Stations) was a new museum, House of Illustration, featuring a show by Chez PLJ favourite Quentin Blake.
Opening room of Quentin Blake illustration exhibition

We also visited a smaller Cartoon Museum in London, just north of Covent Garden and just south of the Britsh Museum, but it was late in the day and we only had time to peruse the gift shop.

When we weren’t walking, we were riding the Tube. Always a marvel of efficiency, it was even nicer now with the Oyster Card, an electronic ticketing system introduced in 2003 and reason #274 how our Toronto’s TTC looks absolutely antediluvian in comparison. (Though the Tube’s announcement system is reeaaally chatty compared to other transit systems.) Tap the card on the sensors at the beginning and end of your journey, funds debited. Need to top up your card? At the station or online, easy-peasy.

Theatre

We saw two shows in London: First, the wonderfully sly and witty musical Matilda, based on the Roald Dahl book, with a musical score by the wonderfully sly and witty Tim Minchin.

Matilda opening stage, with the letters of the play's name in coloured squares above the stage
The opening stage

The next night we saw The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, a marvellous and equally inventive dramatic play based on the book by Mark Haddon (and if you know the book, you know that adapting it would be quite a challenge. What can we say about both shows that doesn’t immediately devolve into mindless fan babbling? Both shows were tight and exceptionally good! If you are heading to London, try to see both; you won’t regret it!

Brussels

Because the Chunnel didn’t even exist when we last visited Europe, when we realized how close we were to the train station we figured we must try the Eurostar! However, we only had one full day to spare in our vacation. What city could we visit for just one day? Not Paris—that would need at least three days. How about Brussels?

When we went there, we made good use of the Brussels card (which provides free entry into almost every museum in the city, plus free transit. Well worth the cost.) Of the museums we saw, the one that made the biggest impression was the Belgium Comic Book Centre (aka Centre Belge de la Bande Dessinée/Belgisch Stripcentrum) housed in a lovely Art Noveuau building designed by Horta. It has a large selection of European—mainly Belgian and French—comics, as well as an attached comic-centric library. Comics and cartoons become a kind of theme of our visit, since we also visited the MOOF: Museum of Original Figurines, a slightly bizarre collection of 3D figurines of European comic characters (think Smurfs, Astérix). We also got to two of the three BOZAR museum galleries, limited simply by time before our train departed.

Missed Moments: Although we knew about and were looking forward to seeing many of the giant wall murals of cartoon characters scattered all across central Brussels, somehow in our late afternoon exhaustion, in the surprisingly hilly Brussels(well, compared to London)…we blanked. Worse, given our path in the city, more than once we were but steps from a mural—all we had to do is round a corner, or go a little farther. Retracing our steps, it was like we were actively avoiding them. Oh, the shame.

A table with mussels and french fries and bottled water
And, yes, we did the seriously touristy thing and ate moule et frites, waffles, and bought lots of (but, alas, never enough of) Belgian chocolates. Strike that—we didn’t buy enough truffles. More regrets.

Leeds

Back to London for 4½ hours, then up by rail for a 3-day stay in Leeds, where friends Bev and Alastair (and their son Rowan), awaited. There they took us on magnificent journeys through the wonders of Yorkshire: the first day included The Salts Mill, a historic mill revitalized as a modern art gallery for local boy made good David Hockney, shopping and restaurant complex at Saltaire; as well as a ride on the Shipley Glen Tramway, a historical funicular train, and a long ramble alongside canals and aqueducts, then through forest trails and farmers’ fields—involving everything from geocaching to cow patties.

Canal boat aqueduct passing over a small forested river
The canal aqueduct passing over a river

Moment: As we passed a lock, a couple vacationing in a canal boat asked for help in opening the rather old, stiff doors of the lock. We got a first-hand view of the workings of the lock as we closed and opened the various lock doors as we were told after the appropriate redistribution of the water.

The next day we went to Fountains Abbey, a magnificent ruined abbey and mansion grounds, featuring lovely landscaped water gardens and follies. Two more UNESCO World Heritage Site notches on our belts! (Three in total with La Grand-Place, downtown Brussels!)

In London we successfully managed to meet up with a couple of our UK Twitter pals, leaving small bottles of maple syrup as calling cards. Unfortunately, our tweep in Leeds (a cartoonist) couldn’t make our rendezvous, so we did as instructed and left his wee gift with the manager at the brilliant OK Comics in downtown Leeds. He seemed somewhat bemused at the offering, asking “do you ALWAYS travel with maple syrup in your bag?” This is where one tries to put on a casual face and say “Why, yes. Don’t you?”

Tower Bridge

Then to the train back to London for one more day of walking thru The City, past St. Paul’s, gazing thoughtfully at the Tower of London’s poppies…

Tower of London poppies pouring from castle window, seemingly spilling onto moat lawn

…across Tower Bridge—whereupon alarms sounded and we hustled off for it to open to let a passing boat through…

Tower Bridge's drawbridge segments hoisted up

…then meeting up with cartoonist Sydney Padua for coffee. A quick, rather unremarkable dinner, sleep, one last visit to Kaffeine, then to Heathrow.

A huge thanks to Grandpa Suzuki for the plane tickets; Grandma for the pounds to help make it a memorable trip; Neal for the dessert; and Bev, Alastair and Rowan for their incredible hospitality!

Millennium Bridge panorama with St. Pauls in the distance

So What’s With The Quiet Blog?

PeterLaura Glad you asked. This fall has been spent trying to get a few ducks in a row.

Duckie 1

As of late last year, we decided to move Jon to a different school. Although there are some decent staff at his current school, their education plans for Jon never really crystallized, and there was always some aspect of equipment, school layout, and other sundry issues that were always holding things back. None of Jon’s classmates are at his level, and have completely different challenges than him. In the end, the school just clearly isn’t appropriate for his needs, educationally, physically and peer-wise.

Although provincial education regulations specifically state that a disabled child’s educational needs must be provided for, the Toronto District School Board (TDSB) has created some policies that make it difficult to alter a student’s placement or even find out about other specific options.

We’ve posted previously about the assignment of Jon’s high school at the close of his elementary school year. It wasn’t an ideal placement: offered late, with much board reticence to allow us to see other placement options for Jon.

This late offer turned out to be because of a sudden shortage of placement positions in our quadrant of the city, caused mainly by the board selling an entire high school. West Toronto was the best adapted high school to special-needs kids (like Jon) in the TDSB’s entire South-West sector. In fact, it was the only dedicated special-needs high school with complete wheelchair accessibility in the old “City of Toronto” proper; the other equivalent schools are in Scarborough, Etobicoke and North York, and at that they are towards the outskirts of our metropolis.

So, with some very helpful strategic advice from parents in a similar situation, who fought a very similar battle last year (and who shall remain nameless in this blog), we began. We’d been warned that this process would likely be taxing, so to avoid having it stealing too many resources from the rest of our lives (other personal events of 2011 had already done that, thank you very much) we assigned a single operative for the campaign. Peter would act as the primary, allowing Laura to focus on work, rather than the arbitrary “logic” of school board bureaucracy. Also in this way, Laura would not enter the picture until it was coming to a close or she was needed join the battle.

Peter started The Quest for a Placement More Appropriate To Jon’s Needs (tentative movie title, but the producer wants to call it We Bought a Tinker, Tailer, Soldier, and The Muppets!) on the first day of school, September 6. By mid-October, Peter ended up facing a panel of approximately 14 administrators and staff of Jon’s current high school, as per Board policy. One was openly sympathetic to Jon’s needs for a new placement, another …opposed? …played Devil’s Advocate? —we’re still unsure. In the end, Peter put forward a strong case and heard one member of the panel openly say that he was right (nice to hear!)

To be clear, we never felt that anyone at the board ever actively worked against us. As the gears ground along, two or three were quite supportive, giving Peter secret advice or simply working hard to find a good placement. But the procedures set by the TDSB allowed this to drag out longer than necessary. Part of this is the relative scarcity of “congregational” schools: schools dedicated to a specific select group—in Jon’s case, the physically disabled with their mobility and assistive equipment. Of course, because of this equipment, these specialized schools have lower student densities than regular schools (bizarrely, provincial school funding is based on square footage/student density). The school board, hard up for funding, has taken to selling infrastructure on more expensive land, and placing specialized (low density) schools in areas with a lesser land value. Add to this is the fact that both the TDSB and the Province of Ontario are officially in favour of reducing congregational school in favour of “integrated” (i.e. regular) schools. This is the world we live in.

But we digress. We seem to have reached a happy conclusion: sometime early in the New Year, Jon will be attending York Humber High School at Jane and Eglinton. Its accessibility is scads better than Danforth; staff (judging from several we encountered during a visit) are highly energized and motivated, and clearly care about the students. Prior to our first visit staff had already started discussing specific teaching options for Jon’s strengths and weaknesses. Because the school serves a range of kids from developmentally delayed (DD), through Mild Intellectal Disability (MID) to Learning Disabled (LD), they have a range of learning options for Jon, and more social opportunities.

York Humber High School

The one disadvantage about the school is that it’s 15 km away from home, on the west side of the city. This means Jon will have a lengthy commute, one that crosses the centre of Toronto. It took us 45 minutes to get home from our visit; how long will his trip in rush-hour traffic take every day? (Then again, this year his bus is taking 60–75 minutes to get from his school 3 km away—so who’s to say which will be faster?)

The school’s forwarded an offer to us, and we’ve signed it.

We say that Jon will be attending the new school “sometime” in the New Year because the move depends on when his assistive devices (computer, keyboard, scanner, CCTV, stander and tricycle) are moved by the TDSB (as they are board-issued, Peter is not allowed to move them himself). But as of just before the holidays, none of the involved parties (old school, new school, board) seemed to know who’s responsible for transferring the equipment, or arranging his new bus route. This may yet take a few more phone calls and emails on our part. (Or maybe it will go just fine. Who can say?)

In the end, the most ridiculous thing is that everyone in the system has remarked to us how exceptionally fast Jon’s case has been resolved. If that’s fast we’d hate to see protracted!